要以平常心来面对事情

Yep, that is what he told me. After the pretty sad last couple of days of moping around, which I am not proud to admit to, I think I can finally see the merit in this.

Since I cannot change anything, I shall just leave things the way they are, which is not necessarily a bad thing.

I don't want to keep fixating on one thing forever. And although I really do care about him a lot, sometimes we cannot expect things to just fall into place.

That's why I should just "以平常心来面对事情", the rest would come along when it comes along. =D

"Acceptance might not be such a bad thing. Because you are no longer going against anything." - Hensen Moer